Here I come with a word which we use 100 times per day something called as "TIME". For example Kitna baj gaya(what time is it), Yaar mera time kharab chalra hai kya kare(A very hard day what to do??), Tu itne baje ane wala tha,late kardiya yaar (You are going to come at that TIME ,you are late buddy), Girl friend or boy friend bolte h tum mujhe time hi kab dete ho(Girl friend or boy friend say when you have timefor me)... many more are there in real life which you are used to regarding the word time...
But the main thing that strike my mind is why people say "Waste of Time"??
First of all if you think the thing you are doing is a waste of time then why you do that thing ?
We are simple human beings to hide our faults and blame others or the situation. In that manner if we are not success in our life then we blame time. Let me say you about two persons , hope you will understand what i mean to say. Basically people of our age fall in love and most probably 70% got betrayed, after that most commonly they used to listen sad songs & behave like "DEVDAS". But one of my friend , his story made me inspired . He was in love with a girl madly,they used to date each other, there love affair was famous during his college days. As we know , after college people struggle a lot by going far from there home town ,like that only he went out in search of job.
His Dad said "Jab tak ghar nhi chodega tab tak tu bada admi nhi banpayega"(if you won't leave the home then you are not going to know about struggle), finally he got a job but by getting a job the time he used to give that girl became less. Slowly , slowly due to work pressure , the distance between them got farther & farther. He realizes this thing & planned for a surprise on her birthday,when he arrived, the girl was no longer there. She was dating someone else, he didn't say a single word . Only the word he spoke was "Khus raho"(Stay happy).Then he went out , Uhun guys don't get confused there means i had said it before that devdas scene. After getting drunken due to rash driving he met with an accident .We all friends heard all this stuff one of his friend said "yaar tera time kharab chalra pehle ladki chodi uske baad itna bura accident"(Friend your time was really bad your girlfriend left you & you met with an accident). The reply he heard was really inspiring he said "Yaar mera time kabhi kharab nhi hai mene kuch sikha hai ki jindagi aise bhi hoti hai jo hota hai ache k liye hota hai us ladki k andar kabhi mere liye kuch tha hi nahi aur mera accident mere wajah se hua ,pine k baad aramse gadi chalao yeh bhi sikhliya mene"(Buddy mine time was not bad i learned something here. The girl never loved me and meeting with an accident was also my fault never speed up while you are drunk ). He chose the positive one that everyone have one in them.
Now I will like to introduce someone who is there in our society.As usual workers, he used to be an ordinary worker who passed out graduation in Commerce stream , due to some problem he stopped studying & left his home town in search of job.He was working as an operator in a lathe machine i don't know about machines but he used to say so I remembered. People side by side say you were good in studies why you left studying ??as your family back ground is also good, on his back people say "Yaar uska time kharab chalra hai"(His time is not good).By listening all theoe stuffs he never revert back ,he keep on doing his work. After some years he owned his own factory where several worker are there,when those people asked him how you achieve all this things he replied "I had never blame time for my luck i just used this time in hard work to achieve some thing.I had a dream that i will do mechanical factory of my own if I would studied further now I may be a C.A but my dream would have failed so I left studying. I just used all these time for my dream without failing or thinking that I would have done this or that.
CONCLUSION:-
So,guys I will never say to learn something or be like them. It's all yours. Both of them have different views regarding time but they never blamed it.They just learned or utilized the time, the way they wanted. .Never blame the situation or person or time. If we are doing so then we are wasting time. Let's start with a new beginning thinking what we can do today not about future. Failures and success will come and go but let's start learning from them.
But the main thing that strike my mind is why people say "Waste of Time"??
First of all if you think the thing you are doing is a waste of time then why you do that thing ?
We are simple human beings to hide our faults and blame others or the situation. In that manner if we are not success in our life then we blame time. Let me say you about two persons , hope you will understand what i mean to say. Basically people of our age fall in love and most probably 70% got betrayed, after that most commonly they used to listen sad songs & behave like "DEVDAS". But one of my friend , his story made me inspired . He was in love with a girl madly,they used to date each other, there love affair was famous during his college days. As we know , after college people struggle a lot by going far from there home town ,like that only he went out in search of job.
His Dad said "Jab tak ghar nhi chodega tab tak tu bada admi nhi banpayega"(if you won't leave the home then you are not going to know about struggle), finally he got a job but by getting a job the time he used to give that girl became less. Slowly , slowly due to work pressure , the distance between them got farther & farther. He realizes this thing & planned for a surprise on her birthday,when he arrived, the girl was no longer there. She was dating someone else, he didn't say a single word . Only the word he spoke was "Khus raho"(Stay happy).Then he went out , Uhun guys don't get confused there means i had said it before that devdas scene. After getting drunken due to rash driving he met with an accident .We all friends heard all this stuff one of his friend said "yaar tera time kharab chalra pehle ladki chodi uske baad itna bura accident"(Friend your time was really bad your girlfriend left you & you met with an accident). The reply he heard was really inspiring he said "Yaar mera time kabhi kharab nhi hai mene kuch sikha hai ki jindagi aise bhi hoti hai jo hota hai ache k liye hota hai us ladki k andar kabhi mere liye kuch tha hi nahi aur mera accident mere wajah se hua ,pine k baad aramse gadi chalao yeh bhi sikhliya mene"(Buddy mine time was not bad i learned something here. The girl never loved me and meeting with an accident was also my fault never speed up while you are drunk ). He chose the positive one that everyone have one in them.
Now I will like to introduce someone who is there in our society.As usual workers, he used to be an ordinary worker who passed out graduation in Commerce stream , due to some problem he stopped studying & left his home town in search of job.He was working as an operator in a lathe machine i don't know about machines but he used to say so I remembered. People side by side say you were good in studies why you left studying ??as your family back ground is also good, on his back people say "Yaar uska time kharab chalra hai"(His time is not good).By listening all theoe stuffs he never revert back ,he keep on doing his work. After some years he owned his own factory where several worker are there,when those people asked him how you achieve all this things he replied "I had never blame time for my luck i just used this time in hard work to achieve some thing.I had a dream that i will do mechanical factory of my own if I would studied further now I may be a C.A but my dream would have failed so I left studying. I just used all these time for my dream without failing or thinking that I would have done this or that.
CONCLUSION:-
So,guys I will never say to learn something or be like them. It's all yours. Both of them have different views regarding time but they never blamed it.They just learned or utilized the time, the way they wanted. .Never blame the situation or person or time. If we are doing so then we are wasting time. Let's start with a new beginning thinking what we can do today not about future. Failures and success will come and go but let's start learning from them.
I really heat what you are saying! Great post!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Maria.. Keep supporting me.
Deletevery nicely written , especially about time
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